Claim Your Next Chapter: Solo Retreats for Women Who Lead Their Own Lives
- Jess Zacker
- Sep 25
- 4 min read
Updated: 4 days ago
There’s a shift that happens when the house gets quieter, when the constant swirl of family and work finally settles. Maybe you’re newly an empty nester. Maybe you’ve scaled back from a demanding career. Maybe life changed and you’re ready for a steadier rhythm that fits who you are now.
If the word “retreat” still makes you raise an eyebrow, you’re not alone. Many women picture matching outfits and group circles that ask for more sharing than feels comfortable. Fair. A lot of us have rolled our eyes at the idea. But a good solo-friendly retreat isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about leadership in its most personal form: choosing space to think clearly, feel supported, and move at your own pace.
What wellness really looks like when you go solo
For women moving through a life-stage shift, wellness isn’t a checklist (although there is one shortly which will help you shortlist the one for you!) It’s the way morning light falls across a quiet room you don’t have to tidy. It’s deciding whether to join a breathwork session, or sip coffee slowly and watch the day ease open. It’s a gentle walk before lunch, a stretch class you can leave halfway if journaling feels more honest. It’s dinner where you can chat, or sit with your thoughts, and still feel welcome. You’re choosing your own rhythm. The best retreats understand that solitude and community both matter. Nothing is forced. Everything is an invitation.
Some real-life examples that might suit you:
A three night “digital sabbatical” in a nature-led lodge: phones parked at check in, quiet morning walks, a short evening circle you can opt out of, and soft lamps instead of screens at night.
A midweek, sleep focused stay: proper blackout curtains, sound therapy in the afternoon, a simple dinner menu that supports rest, and a facilitator who offers ten-minute check ins, not hour long overshares.
A mountain weekend that pairs gentle hikes with breathwork and practical journaling prompts. You write three lines, you’re done. You feel heard without having to tell your entire story.
A nutrition and movement micro retreat: a cooking class with a dietitian, optional strength sessions tailored to midlife bodies, and long breaks to nap, read, or do nothing at all.
What’s new in wellness retreats ?
Longevity focused stays: programs that blend movement, sleep, and simple health education. For solo travellers, this can mean clear daily structure with no pressure. Steady, not intense.
Eco conscious escapes: energy aware properties, low waste dining, nature led activities. This often means quieter settings and fewer crowds which are ideal for reflection.
Digital detox options: gentle phone free zones, journaling prompts, and staff who communicate in person. Helpful if you want a clean break from the never ending scroll.
Personalised journeys: pre-arrival questionnaires, flexible schedules, and one-on-one sessions. Useful for setting your own pace without explaining yourself.
Wellness + adventure pairings: think hiking, kayaking, or coastal walks paired with recovery time and simple practices. A good fit if you want movement without competitiveness.
Hotel Sleep Programs
What to look for when choosing a solo-friendly retreat
A clear daily schedule with optional sessions and honest descriptions.
Private room options, quiet spaces, and places to sit alone without feeling awkward.
Simple arrival info, inclusions & exclusions, a reachable host, transparent transport guidance.
Group culture that respects privacy: optional sharing, small groups, facilitators who state their approach plainly.
Food that’s flexible and friendly to dietary needs, with realistic mealtimes.
Refund and cancellation terms you can understand in one read.
Below is a printable checklist that helps solo women choose the right wellness retreat. Grab yours, breathe easy!
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Frequently Asked Questions
Will I be lonely? You’ll be on your own, not alone. The right retreat lets you join in or step back without anyone taking it personally.
Is it too “woo”? Look for plain descriptions, skills based sessions (breathwork, mindful walking, journaling), and facilitators who share their methods upfront.
Will I be expected to share? Sharing should be optional. Your presence is enough.
Is it safe? Safety is clarity: plan details, contact numbers, and people who check in without hovering.
An Example of a Day in the Life of a Retreat
Early morning: You wake slowly, stretch, and open a window. No rush. Tea in hand, you note one line in your journal: What does today need?
Late morning: Optional breathwork. You stay for twenty minutes, then wander a quiet path because your body asks for air and trees.
Lunch: Simple, fresh food. You join a table for light conversation, then take a nap without apology.
Afternoon: A practical workshop with three prompts: What do I want more of? What am I ready to carry more lightly? What’s one next step? You write a few lines. That’s enough.
Evening: A short walk at golden hour. Dinner is unhurried. Screens stay aside. You sleep well.
If you’ve been a skeptic You might have spent years rolling your eyes at the idea of a “retreat,” until life got loud enough that you listened to the quiet voice: I deserve this, too. It’s not about being “a retreat person.” It’s about being a woman ready to press pause, think clearly, and lead herself into what’s next, without labels and pressure.
If this resonates and if you feel a little apprehensive and a little excited then you’re in the right place.
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